Filipinos need to end their love affair with mediocrity and ‘pwede na yan’ mentality

My views are not very popular with Filipinos. I guess it’s partly my fault because I like posting topics that some might consider taboo and boring. But it’s not like I discuss religion or make fun of other people’s religious beliefs. Granted, I like talking about Philippine politics and society in general but I really think it’s time majority of Filipinos stopped pretending that things are going to be okay as long as we all maintain a “positive” outlook and be “hopeful”. Sadly, there is nothing to hope for if there is hardly anything being done to fix the country’s problems that keep coming up year after year. Flooding, anyone?

Unfortunately, most Filipinos would rather see the bright side of things probably because the reality tends to put them in a bad mood. They hold on to the old notion — the cliché of always seeing the glass half-full. They think people who highlight what is wrong with Filipino culture are being “negative”. Well, think again. Filipinos can try and pretend things are okay only until the next disaster strikes the country. That’s when people realize again that the country does not have the resources to save its citizens and has to seek help from overseas.

Poverty remains a pressing national issue 30 years after 'people power' supposedly won.
Poverty remains a pressing national issue 30 years after ‘people power’ supposedly won.
The problem is, it’s been three decades since former President Ferdinand Marcos dubbed “the dictator” was ousted from power, and yet the Philippines has remained backward in a lot of ways. The fact that most Filipinos still can’t be vocal about their views on important issues plaguing the nation is proof that 30 years after democracy was supposedly “restored”, majority of us are still afraid to speak out. It seems Filipinos are afraid of retribution from the powerful if they spoke out against political corruption and cronyism.

Filipinos in general just don’t like talking about what they consider to be unpleasant things. It seems they can’t handle the truth. As James Fallows puts it in his seminal article A Damaged Culture:

The Filipino ethic of delicadeza, their equivalent of saving face, encourages people to raise unpleasant topics indirectly, or, better still, not to raise them at all.

I just can’t get over the fact that it’s been 30 years since James Fallows wrote that observation about us but not much has changed. Most Filipinos to this day still frown upon those who criticize Filipino public servants and our own shortfalls. It could be because a lot of Filipinos treat their public servants like celebrities despite their incompetence. A classic example of this is the incumbent President Benigno Simeon “BS” Aquino who is still revered by many despite proof that he is also one of the most corrupt public official in the land. He is revered for the single reason that he is the son of so-called “heroes” Cory and Ninoy Aquino. It’s so bizarre especially since the Edsa “People Power” revolution’s only real legacy is the continued disregard for the rule of law.

Over at the Inquirer, someone by the name of Billy A. Chan wrote an article that hits the right notes — that is, if you are into empty platitudes. If you are, you will surely like his piece titled, I love this country. Apparently, if you believe Chan, just saying “I love this country and everything about it” will make life easier for the average Filipino.

I noticed that Chan’s article is short on specifics. He is of the belief that “there will be so much change if we love instead of hate.” It’s not clear how he expects change to happen just by “loving” but it is clear that he is very good at tuning out the bad bits about the Philippines.

Let’s start from the beginning. Chan wrote: “I love that there are still public servants who are sincere and genuine in fulfilling their duties as elected officials.” If I may ask, which elected public servant was he talking about? I wish he named at least one so we could look up his track record and see for ourselves if this “sincere and genuine” elected public servant really exists.

Chan also made a big deal of people who bother to go to the polls “just to cast their votes for the candidates they think they deserve.” Hmm…Let me see, a non-performing senator won the 2010 Presidential Election and the one who came second and almost won again was convicted plunderer former President and now Mayor Joseph Estrada. Obviously, a lot of those who do go to the polls don’t choose wisely. I do commend those who refuse to sell their votes, indeed. Unfortunately, there seems to be more voters who do sell their votes compared to those who don’t.

I don’t know how old Chan is but he gave this impression that typhoon Yolanda was the first devastating typhoon that ever struck the Philippines:

I love how this country produced thousands of leaders after Typhoon “Yolanda/Haiyan” devastated parts of the Visayas. I love how Filipinos have realized the importance of mangroves along coastlines, which saved hundreds of lives from the deadly storm surges unleashed by Yolanda. I love how natural calamities make Filipinos aware of the extreme effects of climate change and push them to implement measures to protect themselves and the environment.

The country gets visited by at least 20 typhoons every year. Yolanda may have been the strongest in recent times, but the country’s other devastating typhoon Sendong in 2011 or the ones before that should have made Filipinos “realize the importance of mangroves along coastlines” already. Obviously, the previous disasters have not pushed Filipinos enough to “implement measures to protect themselves and the environment”. It remains to be seen if Filipinos did learn from Yolanda and are more prepared for the next typhoon.

Filipinos are not a 'race'. How many times does that need to be said?
Filipinos are not a ‘race’. How many times does that need to be said?
Chan claims to love how “we are still a proud and strong race.” First of all, somebody ought to tell him that the concept of race has already been debunked. Instead of referring to us as a Filipino “race”, he should use Filipino ethnicity. Researchers have agreed that races do not exist and that the concept of race “was socially constructed, arising from the colonization of the New World and the importation of slaves, mainly from western Africa”. Second, we don’t need to be a proud people just to get respect. Rather, we need to be more humble and stoic while working hard to build our country from the ground up especially since there’s still so much work to be done before we can be truly independent.

One can be forgiven for thinking that Chan may have been smoking something illegal when he wrote the article. He just loves everything that rational folks absolutely hate having to put up with. He loves riding in the cramped trains, loves standing on the bus, he loves to endure endless traffic, making detours and seeing the roads that are under repair. He is even willing to to pay more for the experience. What a guy! No wonder our public servants do not feel the need to improve the appalling conditions in the country.

A lot of Filipinos don’t realize that Chan’s over-enthusiasm for mediocrity is part of the reason things don’t improve in the Philippines. It’s the pwede na yan or “that’ll do” mentality at work. Is he expecting Filipinos to just accept the cramped conditions on public transport? I almost fainted when I rode the MRT in the middle of the day. That wasn’t even peak hour.

Colossal loss of productivity and shrinking bottom lines from a business perspective
Colossal loss of productivity and shrinking bottom lines from a business perspective
Will people like Chan frown on those who demand that the Department of Transportation and Communications do something to ease the congestion and overcrowding on trains? Is it too much to ask for an upgrade on the facilities and infrastructure on public transport? I don’t think so. Chan also does not see things from a business point of view. The economy suffers huge productivity losses and inefficiency as a result of traffic congestion. Only when Filipinos stop accepting mediocrity will things improve.

Chan also commended “brilliant” Filipinos who stay in the country. While I do agree that brain drain is cause for concern for the country, Filipinos who choose to leave the country for lack of better opportunity and recognition in their homeland should not be treated as outcasts or regarded as “unpatriotic”. He can even ask former PAGASA employees why they left.

Migration is not a phenomenon unique to Filipinos. Some folks are just wired to seek adventure elsewhere for a sea change or tree change. In fact, those who choose to live in another country can share the knowledge they learn from their adopted country with their compatriots. Filipinos in the Philippines just have to be more open to suggestions from people who have been exposed to progressive thinking.

Likewise, Filipinos who choose to stay in the Philippines do not have a monopoly on patriotism. They just have their own reasons for staying. Some just prefer to stay because of all the perks of living among family and friends and having cheap servants. Not all of them share their “skills and talent”. I know some who don’t even work and are just slacking off.

Chan also painted such a rosy picture of the overseas foreign workers’ (OFWs) plight.

I love it when mothers and fathers who need to work abroad take pains to explain to their children the reasons for their temporary absence. I love it when these parents, the country’s modern-day heroes, come home for good to resume family life, having saved enough for themselves and their loved ones.

Unfortunately, not all families whose loved ones had to go abroad for work have a happy ending. Some of the kids who were left behind by their OFW parents grow up without a mother or father figure to look up to. Their parents weren’t there on important events and milestones. When they come back, they are often estranged from the very people they financially supported from thousands of miles away.

A lot of these OFWs do not earn a lot from their jobs as domestic workers and fail to save money. Years after toiling abroad, they don’t even have a job they can come back to. This is a result of the government’s bad economic policies since the 1970s that made the country too dependent on OFW remittances to stimulate the economy. This is something that Chan needs to highlight if he truly wants “change”. Writing his representative in congress to do something about the plight of the OFWs is more productive than mouthing off “I love” platitudes.

Filipinos can’t just say, “they love everything about the Philippines” and expect things to improve. It won’t happen unless they do something about it. Demanding for change from their elected public servants is a good first step instead.

And Filipinos who express their “hate” of our culture of mediocrity don’t necessarily hate the Philippines. They just want the best for the country.

Image courtesy Jerry Ocampo.
Image courtesy Jerry Ocampo.
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ven-ven
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Another great article Ilda! I really agree with the last two sentences of the article. I express dismay and hate to the country something my family and friends cannot understand. I don’t hate my country, i want the country to prosper, I want the majority of the people to have a quality life, quality education, quality service and not just the rich ones. Availability and affordability of all basic needs for all the people. Papaano mo susolusyonan ang problema kung hindi mo alamin kung anong cause nito? Let’s Deal with the root cause and not the effect. Huwag yong “bahala… Read more »
J.F. Valenzuela
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Absolutely brilliant! As a retired PhilAm I have been “advised” by my own relatives that I should not be so outspoken about the politics in my hometown in Ilocos Norte. I’ve questioned the Mayor and his cohorts in the past and still nothing has changed. I will share your article on my wall and hope to read more on such an insightful perspective. I’m overwhelmed that I finally found another person with the exact same perspective as myself. Kudos to you sir!!!

victor m. hernandez
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I strongly agree. We are a people who thinks small, ruled by politicians who think small but think big in getting themselves rich before their ternms end, and forget what they promised to do during election campaigns. We are contented with isang-kayod isang tuka mentality, and not think of the future and sustainability. The politicians have been co-opted by businemen who only think of getting richer and richer, and businemen who are co-opted by politicans who want to become rich by miliking the businessmen. The consumers are victims to all this get-rich-quick mentality of those who are influentials in politics… Read more »
joeld
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The guy (Chan) who wrote that article is simply out of touch with the realities of the country. It may be because he is not from NCR, or just maybe because of plain naivety. Surely it warrants a space in the Inquirer, just what the yellow king ordered. Funny how articles like this are being published nowadays, seems like a new strategy by the MCG, appeal to emotions of the filipino people just to deflect and save face for their shortcomings. This is simply a message to the filipino idiots from your friendly neighborhood idiots by the Pasig river…… “makuntento… Read more »
Amir Al Bahr
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On the other hand, the article seems like an exercise in sarcasm, albeit a poor one.

And yet this guy should have known that sarcasm simply does not work on Filipinos. They are simply not wired to immediately get it.

Jaime G. Arejola
Guest

And you sir, are an exercise of what – conformity?

Amir Al Bahr
Member

Excuse me, when I meant “this guy”, I wasn’t referring to Ilda. I was referring to the author of that “I love this country” article.

However Ilda interpreted the article, it doesn’t take away from the fact that what she wrote about Filipinos’ love affair with mediocrity and “pwede-na-yan” is spot on.

kabayongtao
Guest

I agree with you, I think the linked article is a satirical piece.

I hope it is, lol.

Dave
Guest

Maybe that deluded “I love…” guy has been reading those ‘positive thinking’ self-help guides that advocate burying your head in the sand to make problems magically go away. They foster an ignorant and extremely selfish mentality.

sage
Guest
It all lies upon the middle class for things to have any semblance of progressive change. You need only to look up historical examples of the Bourgeoisie from the French Revolution who established the framework that would lead to an upheaval of the decrepit monarchy. Unfortunately, the Filipino middle class either tries to be in bed with the upper strata, the elite or just packs up and leave with no one to man the helm. The country tolerates small because the majority left is small people. It can’t be helped when they don’t know any better beyond trying to live… Read more »
archie
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You made me laugh with BS pictures and thanks for the new word that fits our incompetent politicians: “NanunungKulang”

Gogs
Member

You really can’t have your cake and eat it too. You can’t have a country that does not value intellect, has very low standards on peace and order. Does not respect their fellow humans in everyday life. Always begging for international aid but hardly in the front of the line when giving it. Does not work for countrymen and when they go abroad complain about working conditions and employers there. Idolize plunderers etc. You can’t have that as your reality and even whisper “proud to be pinoy”. You just can’t. For the Philippines, their reality check bounced.

luzviminda
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what can i say more??? that is the reality we have to accept. changes must start within….evrything will follow.

Jaime G. Arejola
Guest

I like your pounding on the need to expunge this “pwede na” mentality.

Let’s have some more of your beautiful insights, Ilda!

BigKahuna
Guest
I agree that the Filipino people should stop accepting mediocrity as a way of life although i don’t see the point in singling out a certain writer for voicing his opinion. Certain people are allowed a forum to share their view to a large audience and it is within their rights to do so. Unfortunately those with opposing views, or those who see the problems and call them as such are usually in the minority. As a result, the real issues, the real problems that need to be discussed are given very little public exposure. It’s sad really when you… Read more »
June Serrano
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DONT WORRY BROTHER . AS I SAID GOD IS NOT SLEEPING. HE WILL SEND A MEGA DISASTER COZ THAT IS WHAT WE NEED FIRST, A HUGE DEATH TOLL AMOUNTING TO MILLIONS. THAT WILL CREATE JOBS, LESSEN OVERPOPULATION AND MAKE THE SURVIVORS RETHINK ABOUT THEIR LIVES. I SEE A MEGADISASTER WIPING OUT SOMETHING LIKE 40 MILLION PINOYS IN ONE BLOW. BUT WHAT COULD IT BE? GOD WORKS IN MYSTERIOUS WAYS SO DONT LOSE HOPE.

skyturn
Guest

Pwede na mentality.
I call it “Jeepney Mentality”.

matt
Guest

This is strange, some countries work too hard and some countries work too less. I’d rather work less and be happy then work hard just for material prosperity… I guess that makes me a standard Pinoy, but many around the ball would love to live this way too.

bluedestiny
Guest
Now here’s one of the problems most people think of that doesn’t help. Material / money is actually a good thing IF you don’t consider it as an end. What do I mean? Well, if you’re goal is to just make billions for yourself… like most of the corrupt officials, that’s idiotic and I agree that it’s useless in the end. However, if you are working to make a lot of money to stabilize your life, and then in turn use the money you make to better improve the lives of the people around you (and outside your own family),… Read more »
Robert Haighton
Guest

Why should I use my own earned money to improve other’s people lives?

It makes those other people depend dependable. YOu should teach those other people “how to fish” and NOT give them fish every day.

This mentality is also one of the reasons why the Philippines will stay poor for the next 2 centuries.

bluedestiny
Guest
It’s called nation building. You work to help develop the country and provide the opportunity for others to get something out of. Due to lack of better examples, example Tans (SM) and Ayalas would use their own company’s money, develop and area, develop jobs and in turn they also earn billions a day. Now I know they aren’t really the best examples (due to some labor issues they’re skirting and so on) but that’s the idea I was working on. So it’s not “giving fish” to those people. I personally hate that shit as well. As someone who threatened by… Read more »
lunaline
Guest
While everyone would like the idea of working less and being happy, you should also remember that while we exist here that we are trapped in flesh that grows and eventually decomposes no matter how you care for yourself. Basically you can get sick and so are your immediate family or friends. Now if that hypothetical situation of needing big money for some medical purpose would arise who would you depend on? Or not even medical being education, home, means of private transport; The government? As we should have all understood in this article the government is trying to lower… Read more »
Marigold
Guest
I don’t want to believe that Philippines in a poor country economy wise. Pinoys are hard working and dedicated one. It’s the corrupt system of the gov’t. that make us all suffer. We all know that money is the root of all evil but it depends too on what is being done with the money and where it is being spend. Walang awa ang Gobyerno natin sa ating mga Pinoy except for some localities that they’re local leaders had been stretching their rubber strings to at least improve their cities. It’s not fair for those who want to live in… Read more »
Johnny Saint
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What does not penetrate into YOU is that your ‘hard working and dedicated,’ God fearing Pinoys are directly responsible for electing the corrupt and incompetent into positions of power, who then proceed to perpetrate the abuse you are now lamenting. It is breathtakingly stupid not to realise that it is impossible for systemic corruption to be consummated by a single party; there is always collusion. — “Walang awa ang Gobyerno natin sa ating mga Pinoy except for some localities that they’re local leaders had been stretching their rubber strings to at least improve their cities.” This is precisely the attitude… Read more »
Jim DiGriz
Guest
Lunaline, please stop already with this “Filipinos are hard working crap”. Who ever makes a statement like that does not know what hard work really is. Sure, there are Filipinos that have hard work. That is different from working hard. Filipinos are champions in slacking off. I would easily place the Philippines among the top ten lazy countries. Hardly anwhere else have i seen such a despicable work attitude. I am aware that salaries are low, but doing a job properly or doing a job half assed takes the same amount of time. Doing it properly in fact cuts down… Read more »
Hyden Toro
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Electing incompetent leaders; who produced these inconviniences is bad. Improvement is the key to progress. Change and innovations for better things are what make a country progressive.

We love mediocrity. People who are used to living in a dismal and unconfortable situations; justify their impoverished conditions. We just not want to progress; and accept our fates. So, we elect incompetent leaders…

Hyden Toro
Guest

Politics and political patronage are also the ones destroying the country. Politicians gives favors and government jobs to their followers. These followers become rabid defenders of these politicians. Even if the politician is incompetent and corrupt…they will work for him/her to be elected…

Banapplefan
Guest
One of the reasons why I prefer to remain single. As a Filipina woman frustrated with the low-quality of Filipino male species being churned out everyday (which I would love to rebutt to those always defensive,pseudo-macho Flips here), all the folks in my four walks of life always wonder why do I have high standards with men? WTF-as much as I don’t want to explain myself to them why, I want these people to know that as a human being who has dreams, who works hards to achieve what she wants in life and is open-minded to change and new… Read more »
Banapplefan
Guest

Deym typos. :/

bluedestiny
Guest

In your PS part

I hope not, because the “I Hate my country” article actually pointed out every frustrating thing about the Philippines that COULD still be turned around. It pointed out all the good things the country is capable of, with a change or 2…

If THAT is what they’re shooting down then Imma call the “we’re fucking screwed” comment on whatever newspaper that published that sh** article

Anon5000
Guest

“Until you get comfortable with being alone, you’ll never know if you’re choosing someone out of love or loneliness. -Mandy Hale”

There will always be someone who will treat their partner as their possesion (possession? posession?) and it’s not always gonna be a Filipino. So, please, don’t deny the poor fellow of your awesomeness just because he’s Filipino. 🙂 Maybe use the above quote as a test. If he can easily connect with that thought, maybe you guys can start devising a plan on how to save the human race with your baby (babies? babiesssss?) lol

DeymTaposNGA
Guest
You don’t need a man, you need a business partner. It’s not only Philippines that has these you so called man with wrong perceptions of masculinity, It’s everywhere in the world. As i see it, your opinion is from a typical perception of an insecure and immature girl, trying to look for her perfect guy but always frustrated.I’m pretty sure your dad was not a very good example for a Filipino Guy. Some Filipino Men still know the word “respect” and “gentleman” to have a very good relationship with their wife or partner, so don’t generalize them. Everyone is “EMO”… Read more »
June Serrano
Guest

YOU DONT HAVE TO REMAIN SINGLE. START DATING GUYS IN OTHER COUNTRIES. WHAT WILL U DO WITH A POOR SMALL DICK PINOY?

Gogs
Member

Actually Billy Chan needs to read this about ten times. Daily.

http://getrealphilippines.com/blog/2014/01/why-get-real-philippines-is-a-positive-website/

ici
Guest
cheers ilda! as always, you took the words right out of my mouth. however, i found it exceedingly difficult – nay – infuriating to read those excerpts from billy chan’s article. ugh, all that propaganda spewing from every line…i just couldn’t read it! that’s the crap bs and his cohorts are feeding the noytards to keep them in their zombie-like state. while it is true we have to try to keep our sanity as we slowly watch our society and its institutions crumble under this student council, chan’s veiled attempt at telling the noytards that reall, all is well and… Read more »
Coolmint
Guest

How does a whole country fix such deep rooted corruption that even the everyday beat cops feel above the law and continually harass ‘marks’ for paya paya?

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