Customs and Traditions Filipinos Should Start to Stop

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A girl in the US who was assisting her mother cook the Thanksgiving turkey was quite puzzled when she noticed her mother slice off the two ends of the turkey before placing it in the oven. Wondering why such choice portions had to be removed seemingly unnecessarily, she asked her mother the reason. The mother simply answered “That’s how it has always been done by my mother; I am only following the family tradition.”

Unsatisfied and still curious about true meaning of the tradition, the girl went over to the living room where her grandmother was seated and sought a better explanation. The grandmother said “Well, I did it because my oven back in those days was very small. It was the only way to get the turkey to fit. There’s no reason to do it nowadays with ovens as big as your mom’s.”

Practicing traditions without understanding them

There are many customs and traditions in the Philippines we don’t fully understand, yet we keep practicing them anyway simply because that’s how it’s been done ever since; so we simply accept that it will always have to remain that way. What are traditions anyway? They are just man-made practices invented by people long ago who don’t know any better than us in this modern age. Many of these traditions are actually meaningless or obsolete. We need to ask the deeper question: why do we keep doing these things in the first place?

Many Filipino customs and traditions are in fact detrimental to the financial health of families. There are those that also cause undue stress and trouble to the community. These harmful practices need to be phased out. As radical no-nonsense President Rodrigo Duterte likes to say about bad things Filipinos do: STOP IT! These customs and traditions that contribute nothing to our advancement must see the beginning of their end. Many people however cannot stop things abruptly. We should at least take the first steps to bringing about the full eradication of such unwanted baggage.

The following are just a few practices Filipinos should start deleting from their dysfunctional system:

  1. Fiestas. Filipinos celebrate the patron saint of their community, but can’t even tell if the dead saint appreciates all their preparations. Financially constrained families have to borrow money to fund this event even as they struggle to pay the tuition of 5 kids, just to save face when relatives pour in to feast over their costly banquet. To help cover expenses, some barangays even have a road-spanning-rope checkpoint to collect “taxes” or forced “donations” from every vehicle passing through.
  2. Birthday blowouts. It makes people dread the day of their birth because they are coerced by peer pressure and social expectations to throw an all-expense paid party or dine-out meal for friends. Birthdays should instead be celebrated with friends chipping in to give the celebrant an all-expense-paid treat. Now wouldn’t that be something to look forward to?
  3. Caroling with solicitations. It’s a total loss of the spirit of Christmas (voluntary giving) when people sing in front of your house with the express purpose of extorting (demanding) payment for their unsolicited entertainment services. In some houses, people even turn their lights off just to ward off these annoyances. Maybe it’s why Christmas season is longest in this country – the longer the period for making extra money by legalized extortion.
  4. Long processions for funerals. Blocking a road for a slow funeral procession causes significant trouble to the entire community, especially if there are no parallel roads to bypass these annoying mourners. Some of these people even close off an entire street to set up tables for the wake that could last several days.
  5. Late-night karaoke. Filipinos love to sing. However, children need to study and sleep soundly at night. How can people focus or enjoy peace and quiet to recharge for the next day when callous insensitive wannabe performers show no consideration for neighbors with all the sound pollution they create?
  6. Sunday mass for hypocrites. Don’t get me wrong. I’m not against going to church to learn good values. But Filipinos should just skip going to mass IF they take a special time to listen to a priest on Sunday only to spend the rest of the week lying, stealing, scamming and cheating. It would be better use of their time if they just visited the poor and sick, bringing with them some fruits to have good warm fellowship over. Most Filipinos have lost the essence of Christianity and replaced it with building-focused institutions with programs that revolve around human traditions and entertainment.
  7. New year firecrackers. Do large sonic bangs really scare away evil spirits as we welcome the coming of a new year? O really? Then in which direction did the spirit go to run away from you? Is it really worth losing your fingers, risking setting a neighborhood on fire or having a little girl’s head blown by a stray bullet falling through the roof just to proclaim “Happy New Year!”?
  8. Extravagant weddings. Filipinos are in the game of outdoing each other. There is too much pressure on those who want to tie the knot to give an impressive show to all the relatives and friends they invite over to their wedding. New couples should not spend too much on a ceremony, but instead just use their savings as seed money for building their new life together. Ninongs and ninangs are not even needed; they actually only feel coerced when asked. Gifts should be in cash, and not large boxes containing worthless things such as a punch bowl.

Freedom by being different

It’s time for a cool change in the land of dysfunctional zombies. President Duterte is boldly straightening out the crooked road left by his predecessors by removing encumbrances and senseless practices in Philippine society. Measures to address items 5 and 7 will soon be set for nationwide adoption. Anything unnecessary that only makes life difficult for Filipinos should go away.

Be different; be a trail blazer by going against the grain in starting to stop many of our senseless practices. Why not get married far away in a remote beach with just close loved ones invited to reduce expenses? Why not just have simple lumpia and banana cue for the reception? People will even be grateful they didn’t get tempted to pack on too many calories.

Filipinos should really ask themselves why they put up with all the social pressure to be like everyone else. One of my favorite expressions these days is “common sense lang yan”. Common sense is simple: Whatever you see typical Filipinos doing -> simply do the opposite.

Many customs and traditions have only served to imprison Filipinos. It’s time to open the cage and truly fly free. Remember it wasn’t Cory who set Filipinos free; the key to your freedom can be found in one simple word: “STOP”.

Note: Introductory story – compliments of a pastor I could no longer recall.

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Post Author: zaxx

Zealous revolutionary advocate of bringing back common sense for the common good in a land of dysfunctional and delusional zombies.

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Jerry Lynch
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Personally the only 1 of the 8 things on the list that I don’t have a problem with is the last 1. People only get married once and if, like in America, it is the custom for the bride’s family to pay for the wedding, then they should have as nice an event as they can AFFORD. Generally the groom’s family hosts the rehearsal dinner and that also should be a nice event that does not leave the guests hungover for the wedding the next day. Fiestas are a waste of time and money while doing nothing but causing inconveniences… Read more »
Simoun Ybarra
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Senator Raul Manglapus who run for the presidency as a 3rd party candidate against Marcos and Macapagal in 1965 was the first one who suggested the abolition of fiestas because of the financial waste as elaborated in the above article. Senator Manglapus was also the first one who advocated a federal-type of government which, at that time, he simply called it Decentralization of the Government. Senator Manglapus could have been the best president we never had because of his progressive thinking.

Walter KOMARNICKI
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you forgot to mention Filipinos’ love affair with roosters, which are raised on perches as some sort of status symbol to crow long and loud at the early hours to show they’ve finally ‘arrived’, but all it says is that these are nostalgic traditions for a rural or jungle way of life that no longer exists but we’ll hang on to this one no matter what!

andrew
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in my barangay raising rooster gladiators is everywhere. even my girl officemate’s husband is into rooster-fighting. i can’t argue that money is big in these events though.

urban cities like NCR / Cebu / Davao City / Bacolod should ban rooster-fighting as it is a place for white collar workers (mostly). i would suggest that raising roosters stay in farms.

How to eliminate this old tradition?
1. bring in more jobs – i prefer manufacturing
2. education, education, education – promote informal education in barangays

suggestions? please add here . . .

Robert Haighton
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what is informal education?

andrew
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this best explains it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I8Rz24pw7K4

we need this type of education since most of our people are out of school (can’t afford to pay for it).

Robert Haighton
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Andrew,
watched the clip. Thanks for the link.

Regular (= formal) education is better. The way you opt is making that generation, a lost generation. They wont be able to get a decent job. And it wont solve poverty. A nation can only be strong when that nation is empowered.

andrew
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they can’t afford formal education because of poverty. it’s better to have informal than nothing. they have something to do instead of doing nothing. and it also conditions their mind to learn. i want the formal education of Finland because it’s egalitarian. no such public or private schools. our children will be taught with same level, rich or poor. both will get the same education. a wishful thinking for our people. they would get jobs and avoid rooster fighting. it would slowly remove this culture. but rooster fighting is gambling just like UFC, Boxing, etc. it would never be removed… Read more »
anon
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Well it’s better than Drug Dealing tho.

Otomo Sorin
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You might as well ban horse-racing. And probably every form of gambling.

Daniel Ali
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Otomo Sorin
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Can someboy give DU30 a record of Abu Sayyaf activities since its inception? Looks like he’s VERY misinformed.

andrew
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I saw the video and this talk occurred in ARMM I believe. so I think he needs to talk like that because majority of the audience are muslims or it might be an Art of War tactic.

Iron Fisted
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The No Filter Mr. Duterte is definitely mistaken! Abu sayyaf are criminals!

“might be an Art of War tactic”?

http://heavy.com/news/2016/06/isis-islamic-state-abu-sayyaf-philippines-beheads-decapitates-robert-hall-canada-beheading-beheaded-full-uncensored-youtube-video/

James Rocket
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As what my philosophy teacher said, “No one/nothing is safe from change, the only thing you can’t change is change itself”.

Otomo Sorin
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True that. The upcoming generations of Filipinos will definitely overhaul this society. How will it turn out? Only time will tell.

MidnightSolitaire
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Couldnt’t help but laugh at number 6. Oo nga naman. 😊

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Filipinos have customs and tradition. They are part of their mindsets. It is like their skins…they cannot jump out of their own skins.

It will take many many years to remove those customs, and traditions. Some of these customs and traditions, were brought by the Spanish colonizers; to make the natives happy. We accepted them as part of our lives.
Same as patronage politics…we cannot remove this custom !

d_forsaken
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Most will never find the real truth among Failipinos in the Failippines that are insecure or have egos to protect. Truth over time becomes either guarded or twisted as their perspective changes; it changes with the seasons of their shame, love, hope or pride.

JoseMoboC
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Filipino teens and 18+’ penchant for keeping up with the Jonesses, and their parents catering to their whims even if they can’t afford it. (Oh well, dad’s in the military service he’ll fix it. Oh, ate or kuya, dad or mom is an OFW, i can buy what i want. I can go late to class with a Starbucks in my hand. GOT? I can share you, wait till my kuya stream it. I want to study in ADMU, basta! And when realities of exclusive schools hit them, they whine and cry, “I want nice clothes! My schoolmates are dropped… Read more »
Greg
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It is arrogant for Northwesterners or others to say that religion is nonsense. I do not have an organized religion – but respect others’ right to express their wishes of faith, as long as they are peaceful. Ironically, many leftists who criticize religion worship their own religion: government. Yes, these same people who criticize religion have adopted their own religion of government. This is replete, of course, with worship of cult-of-personality politicians, trite phrases they have been brainwashed with( and love to repeat over and over)as well as submission to their government of human gods. Their worship of these political… Read more »
Aryianna
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You forgot to mention starting Christmas in September! What’s with that? Filipinos are only making capitalists rich by starting the celebration this early.

Marianne Miguel
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Fiestas helps boosts the economy through tourism for instance the Panagbenga or Flower festival in Baguio that attracts many tourists. It also has a positive impact not always negative. And we don’t practice cooking a lot food during fiestas or opening our house to anyone who wanted to eat at those times. We don’t even cook anything for our relatives during fiestas. I guess that practice is not that popular in my hometown.